Things parents forget to tell their children: -
- Bodies are hairy. No matter the gender, your face will have hair and that is more than okay.
- Your butthole is going to have some hair too. And maybe your nipples. And your tummy. And where ever else.
- Stretch marks. Those are a thing. Everyone gets ‘em. If you don’t, you probably don’t have skin.
- Vaginas smell. Every vagina has a scent. Don’t worry about it! (Unless something seems wrong, then go get it checked out! No need to feel embarrassed or ashamed.)
- Vaginas come in all different shapes, sizes, colors, flavors. All are beautiful.
- Penises come in all different shapes, sizes, colors, flavors. All are beautiful.
- You don’t need to shave anything if you don’t want to. It’s tooootally not mandatory.
- Sometimes people get butt acne.
- You can have a vagina and want short hair and think dresses are just the worst.
- You can have a penis and want long hair and think dresses are just the best.
- You can wear whatever you want and style your hair however you want.
- You can even think whatever the hell you want.
- People might tell you that you are a girl because you have a vagina. People might tell you that you are a boy because you have a penis. People will tell you what your gender is. But in reality, you don’t have to be that gender. You don’t have to be either of those genders.
- You are what you are and it’s just the worst thing if you try and hide that.
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“oh, you don’t want kids? hahaha, you think that now, but you’ll change your mind when you get older, you’ll eventually want kids when——”
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Twice in the last 24 hours I’ve been harassed on the street by men who felt that it was fine to catcall me, ask for my name, comment on my appearance and even try to grab at my tattoos without my permission. It makes my blood boil; I tell people about it and half the time I get told that I’m overreacting or being sensitive. I’ve had people tell me I’m cold, that claiming to be a feminist makes me unattractive (the logic behind that is dizzying at best), even that I’m a man-hater. Guys tell me to toughen up. Girls tell me to ignore it. Great.
Y’know, I’m all for equal rights. The next time a woman pulls up next to me in her car and asks me my name and where I’m going, then tells me to smile for her only to loudly call me a bitch and threaten me before driving away when I don’t, I’ll be happy to place the blame on her. The next time a middle-aged woman sits next to me on the bus and flashes her vagina at me because she gets off on making me uncomfortable, I’ll be sure to take notes.
Fair is fair.
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And if a woman should say she doesn’t want to have children at all, the world is apt to go decidedly peculiar: ‘Ooooh, don’t speak too soon,’ it will say - as if knowing whether or not you’re the kind of person who desires to make a whole other human being in your guts, out of sex and food, then have the rest of your life revolve around its welfare, is a breezy, ‘Hey - whevs’ decision. Like electing to have a picnic on an unexpectedly sunny day or changing the background picture on your desktop. ‘When you meet the right man, you’ll change your mind, dear,’ the world will say, with an odd, aggressive smugness. —
- Caitlin Moran, “How to Be a Woman” (via Buffy Plays With Demons)
TRUTH.
Literally every time children come up in conversation, and I say that I never want children, EVERY SINGLE PERSON tells me “oh, you’ll change your mind~”. And no matter how vehemently I argue NO I FUCKING WON’T, they still assume I don’t know what I want. In a few cases, addressing the fact that the only reason I haven’t been sterilized is because of my age shuts them up.
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So much fucking truth. I’ve been saying since I was 16 that I don’t want kids. I’m 31 now and I’ve since become more open, but I still don’t even know for sure if I want them. I do know that if I decide when/if to have kids, I’d rather adopt, but that’s all I know so far.
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I finally filled another prompt. Sorry it took so long! I hated everything I drew during the last two weeks.
This promt is for maladicts, who asked me to genderbend whoever I like. And since I wanted to draw Sherly and Joan for a long time, I happily took the opportunity.
I wonder, if Sherly would still buy her shirts a number too small.
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That whole thing was fucking adorable, but what got me was the fact that as I scrolled down, I realised I had the exact same reaction as that gif.
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